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STRUGGLE SESSION: Stealing Daddies, Faking Orgasms, Embracing Asymmetries… and More

Okay, let’s struggle…

While discussing an important rite of passage for gay men with comedian Zach Zimmerman — the first time you get called “daddy” by a younger gay man — I observed that the straights had stolen “daddy” from the gays. Pepeduke says it was the other way around, actually, and came at me with an important receipt…

So, BRIEF and his wife “defaulted” to a DADT arrangement — or least he thinks they did (BRIEF seems to be making a lot of assumptions) — because while his wife enjoys hearing about his sexual adventures, BRIEF does not enjoy hearing about hers. BiDanFan made, as BiDanFan often does, a great point…

Given that she does want to know and he doesn’t, it seems weird that they went with his preference. Is he sure he’s not just cheating? Surely their preferences can...

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