nitesh pandey

He remember her repeatedly telling him, "I'm not perfect." It struck him a little because there he was gleefully embracing the moment with such a beautiful person, which to him was nothing short of perfection. But he knew what she was referring to; the same self- perceived flaws we all have. In a spiritual sense, we are the essence of infinite potential - boundless perfection that is supreme in every way. Yet, we often believe something is wrong with us because we identify strongly with transitory parts of our existence - like our physical body, emotions and experiences.  We confuse who we are with what we perceive through our senses. Often, we say, "What's wrong with me?" or "Why am I broken?" But a more appropriate question would be to ask, "What has happened in the past to make me feel like something is wrong with me?"  It's hard to recognize your brilliance when you've learned that you're not enough or

सक्सेस   के   बाद   का   प्लान   सबके   पास   है  ... लेकिन   अगर   गलती   से   फ़ैल   हो   गए  ... तो   फेलियर   से   कैसे   डील   करना   है  ... इसकी   कोई   बात   ही   नहीं   करना   चाहता Saturday 13th , I was watching Chhichhore, Its high on content and humour packaged so well that it stays with you for a very long time.  I don't remember watching a movie in recent times which evoked the extreme emotions laughter and tears within the 2 and half hours duration. The way Shushant played his part and tried to imbibe the message that losers also have a place in society and they can also live a life with keeping their heads high made me his fan. Never thought, The man who was asking us to enjoy this life and making us realize that We're So Lost in Thinking About Winning, Losing, Success, Failure ...That, We Have Forgotten About Living Life ... The Most Important Thing in Life is ...Life Itself will leave this world like this. May be the

Love is not negotiable. Love is a guessing game and that's the beauty of it. There is no guarantees, it's like... diving into a pool of water without knowing if it's shallow or deep And sure if it's shallow you end up hurt and paralyzed  from the neck down but if it's deep.... you know..., It's a leap of faith, its like throwing yourself out there without any guarantee. And that's what life's about. Okay, you know those carnival games and you know how some of them are really hard to win and some of them are super easy and everyone wins? Well, love is the game that's really hard to win.  But if you do, and you get to take home that life-sized stuffed teddy, it feels a whole lot better than taking home. Love isn't passive, it's an action- a daily choice. What I Believe:- But the most important kind of love is the kind we most often neglect: self love. We give that up in desperate search for love from someone else, and los

Success and Failure are an important part of our lives. There are times when things don’t go the desired way and we call this as Failure. This is the only phase that teaches us many things. It helps us to know the reality of the surrounding people, the people we trust. Steps to Deal with Failure:- 1 .  You should Have faith in Yourself and you have to believe it’s just a temporary period. 2 .  In this phase we tend to develop a negative notion (perspective) towards life and develop an over thinking attitude. So, just stop thinking too much, only concentrate on your goals. There should be Nothing in your mind except your Goals . 3 .  Try to analyze where are you going wrong. What are the things coming your way, just try to find out and start working on it. 4 .  Sometimes we develop a fake world around ourselves and start finding excuses in everything. Remember one thing If there is anyone between Success and Failure then it is You , neither your family nor t

Want to write a story on your life, a poem for your loved ones but don’t know where to start. I have an article ready for you.   Most of us feel that a story, a novel can be written on our life and I believe we are on the same page and agree with this point. The thing that stops us is the word “how”. Writing is neither an easy nor a difficult task, it all depends on your determination and interest (as usual ) but these are not the basic ingredient to become a writer infact determination and your interest are like salt we use while making vegetables. And before that we need something   and what are those things. Let’s see.       1.      You need to be thinker first just thinker nothing else (that’s not a difficult job right?? And I know   we all are perfect   in it). You have to imagine things you are going to write. 2.        You need to have a strong vocabulary of the language in which you want to write. (Here strong     vocabulary doesn’t mean you need

So,A few months ago, some of us came to know about the word intolerance,I was wondering and curious to know about the root of this special word that led many to return their prestigious awards and marked the begining of a tradition, of returning the Hard Earned awards. Intolerance is unwillingness to let other people act in a different way but really we, Indians have become so much intolerant towards our fellow compatriots that these so called intellectuals are returning their awards ?? This was not just my question or thinking but many like me were pondering over this. Then I found out the reason how this difficult pronouncing word upsurged in the market and the one who or rather which were responsible are  the words Ghar Wapsi (Home Coming), Beef ban (These two are some other topic for some another day) . And irony is that In reality(what I could see from my surrounding) there were nothing like intolerance,Ghar Wapsi ,Beef ban.All these were marketed for the